• Oh, the fresh car smell of falling in love!

    Carfax is one of the greatest things that ever could have happened to used car lots. Prior to this service, used car salesmen had one of the worst reputations of all professionals, because they could talk a customer into buying damaged goods, and the customer wouldn’t know it until after they’d driven off the lot. By the time they found…

  • The Math of Comparison Never Works

    Another pitfall I commonly see people fall into is the need to compare the outside world of others to their own reality.  The whole “keeping up with the Joneses,” or the belief I am only as good or as worthy of good things as people are willing to give me, is a dangerous mind game to play. Finding your worth…

  • Here, Now, Today is All We Have

    Many people are afraid to face their fears and past hurts, because “it just hurts too much.” If you feel this way, I want you to imagine yourself carrying a 50 lb. bag around with you every day.  Think how that could impact your internal thoughts as well as how you deal with other people.  Wouldn’t you start to feel…

  • Baggage Claim

    When we allow ourselves to carry baggage from past relationships, we are simply giving life to old emotions. It doesn’t make logical sense to assign the misconduct of one person to a completely different person, but we do it, because the human psyche is set up for protection. Pain isn’t a welcome emotion, it can sting for a long time,…